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Hexagram 13: Tong Ren (同人) — Fellowship with Men

Hexagram 13, Tong Ren (同人) — Fellowship with Men, is the thirteenth figure of the I Ching, composed of the Heaven trigram over the Fire trigram; the ancients read it as kindred spirits drawn to one light.

Meaning

Tong Ren is the hexagram of common purpose. Fire rises toward heaven, and the old readers saw many flames drawn upward to the same sky — people of like mind gathering around a shared ideal. The judgment is precise: fellowship with men in the open. The fellowship that succeeds is the one held in the light, public and unashamed; the fellowship that succeeds only in secret, the text implies, has already begun to fail. The figure is the book's praise of community built on what is openly held in common.

Considered against a working life, the figure is about the alliance of people who share an aim. The lines draw the boundary of it — fellowship at the gate is without blame, but fellowship in the clan brings humiliation. The commentators read this as the difference between the open circle and the closed one: a group that admits only its own kind narrows itself, while one that meets in the open grows strong by its very openness. Common cause, not common blood, is what the figure celebrates.

For the bonds between people, Tong Ren was read as the friendship that is tested and found true. The fifth line is the book's most moving image of it: men bound in fellowship first weep and lament, but afterward they laugh, and after great struggles they succeed in meeting. The commentators saw here the real cost and the real reward of any deep alliance — estrangement and difficulty first, then the reunion that is worth the having because it was fought for.

Within a cycle, this figure marks a phase when joining with others is the natural and powerful course. The image of fire under heaven is the book's picture of light rising to meet a wider light — many small flames answering one sky. The counsel is to seek the open fellowship, to gather around what is genuinely shared, and to accept that a common purpose worth keeping is one that has first been tested by difficulty.

The Judgment

“Fellowship with Men in the open. Success. It furthers one to cross the great water.”

The Six Lines of Fellowship with Men

Line 1Fellowship with men at the gate. No blame.
Line 2Fellowship with men in the clan. Humiliation.
Line 3He hides weapons in the thicket. For three years he does not rise up.
Line 4He climbs up on his wall; he cannot attack. Good fortune.
Line 5Men bound in fellowship first weep and lament, but afterward they laugh. After great struggles they succeed in meeting.
Line 6Fellowship with men in the meadow. No remorse.

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Frequently Asked Questions

Which trigrams form Hexagram 13?
Tong Ren (同人) sets the Heaven trigram (Qian, 乾) above the Fire trigram (Li, 离). Many flames rising toward the same sky were the ancients' image of kindred spirits gathering around a shared ideal — the source of the meaning of fellowship with men.
What does the judgment of Hexagram 13 say?
It reads: 'Fellowship with Men in the open. Success. It furthers one to cross the great water.' The old commentaries explain that the fellowship that succeeds is the one held in the light — public, open, and unashamed — while the one that lives only in secret has already begun to fail.
Why does Hexagram 13 say those in fellowship first weep then laugh?
The fifth line, 'Men bound in fellowship first weep and lament, but afterward they laugh,' was read as the true cost of alliance. The commentators saw in it the teaching that a deep common purpose is first tested by estrangement and difficulty — and that the reunion that follows is the more precious for having been won.

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Source: Judgment and line texts follow the Wilhelm/Baynes rendering of the Yijing.

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